It's ok?

(is it really ok?....really?)

It’s interesting to see how social customs have changed over time. Men used to tip their hats to ladies for example. Now, few men wear much beyond ball caps and seldom even take them off indoors. Please and thank you were traditionally followed by “you’re welcome.” It’s more likely to hear “no problem” or some other less than sincere remark recently. Closer to home, I seem to be waging a campaign to bring forgiveness back. Conflicts can easily arise between family and friends. Apologies follow. But what then? Is it ok to just say “it’s ok?”

“Be alert. If you see your friend going wrong, correct him. If he responds, forgive him. Even if it's personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, 'I'm sorry, I won't do it again,' forgive him." Luke 17:3-4

Frankly, the offenses we commit usually aren’t ok. To imply otherwise almost invites the offense to repeat and that’s not a healthy situation.

Even Jesus told the woman he saved from stoning to “go and sin no more.” It’s difficult at times to muster up a sincere apology. When we do it is freeing and fulfilling to know that we are really forgiven. Giving forgiveness helps the offended party move forward as well.

So forgive if you can…forgive later if you need to. Take it seriously either way!

Brian

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Volume 6, Number 32